ابومحمد و فاطمه
05-11-2008, 08:16 AM
Self motivation is the only way for you to get out of your current
situation that you may not like.
You need to have the inner drive to keep your momentum in achieving your
goals in life.
Without self motivation, nothing else matters.
You can hire the most expensive motivator to tell you all the things you
already know. But, if you fail to realize that there is no one else
except you who can change your life, then you practically throw your
money down the drain by going from one seminar to another in the hope
that you can change your life.
What matters most is your own action. You need to create and develop
your own self motivation to bring you the energy and enthusiasm to
pursue the dreams of your life.
Most of you may be thinking that this is going to be a very daunting
task as you do not have the slightest idea of how you are going to go
about this. You will be surprised as how easy this can really be done.
Here are the 10 things that you need to follow:
1. Do not worry if you make mistakes. Making mistakes is one way we
can learn and improve in our life. There is no one that has never made
any mistake. The most important thing here is you realize that you have
made mistakes and do not repeat the same mistakes again. You learn more
from mistakes you have made than any other way.
2. Feel happy about your life. Happiness generates more positive
energy within you. This energy is important to keep you more optimistic
and enthusiastic about your life. Happy people are always motivated to
accomplish something in their life.
3. Get out of your comfort zone. You need to learn to get into
unfamiliar surroundings to explore better opportunities. Do not just
stick around with the same people, same known places, skills or work.
Explore new things that will enhance your ability to achieve your goals
and keep you stay motivated.
4. Think the unthinkable. Nothing will stop you from thinking of goals
you want to achieve. You have to dream high in order to set high goals.
Everything starts with a dream. Do not limit yourself in your goals and
dreams.
5. Read and listen to inspirational materials. You have to start
spending time reading motivational books and listening to inspirational
tapes. But, you must also implement what you learn from your reading and
listening. New things you learn from these exercises will give you
excitement and energy to work harder toward achieving your goals.
6. Resolve problems instead of running away. Your ride to success
destination will not be smooth all the time. You will face difficulties.
Do not quit when you experience predicaments in your quest to achieve
your dreams. Frustrations and setbacks naturally form as parts of your
success venture.
7. Appreciate every moment of your life. Think of what your life
really is as of now. Appreciate every moment you have currently.
Thinking about the past or day dreaming about the future will not bring
you anywhere. Appreciating your current conditions makes you feel much
better and realize the need to move forward to achieve your goals.
8. Finish what you start. Once you have started something, finish it.
Never leave what you do halfway regardless of the end result.
This will train you to accomplish something out of things that you do.
9. Face challenges one at a time. Challenges come to us almost all the
time. Take up one challenge at a time. Do not try to accumulate and face
them at one go. As the challenges accumulate, you will only feel less
motivated to face them and finally unable to complete anything.
10. Care less about what people say. You may hear a lot of bad things
people say about you. Sometimes those bad comments may come from
somebody close to you. As long as you fully know what you are doing to
achieve your goals, you can let those comments fall into deaf ears.
Thinking too much about what people say will only make you weaker and
loose focus on your effort.
situation that you may not like.
You need to have the inner drive to keep your momentum in achieving your
goals in life.
Without self motivation, nothing else matters.
You can hire the most expensive motivator to tell you all the things you
already know. But, if you fail to realize that there is no one else
except you who can change your life, then you practically throw your
money down the drain by going from one seminar to another in the hope
that you can change your life.
What matters most is your own action. You need to create and develop
your own self motivation to bring you the energy and enthusiasm to
pursue the dreams of your life.
Most of you may be thinking that this is going to be a very daunting
task as you do not have the slightest idea of how you are going to go
about this. You will be surprised as how easy this can really be done.
Here are the 10 things that you need to follow:
1. Do not worry if you make mistakes. Making mistakes is one way we
can learn and improve in our life. There is no one that has never made
any mistake. The most important thing here is you realize that you have
made mistakes and do not repeat the same mistakes again. You learn more
from mistakes you have made than any other way.
2. Feel happy about your life. Happiness generates more positive
energy within you. This energy is important to keep you more optimistic
and enthusiastic about your life. Happy people are always motivated to
accomplish something in their life.
3. Get out of your comfort zone. You need to learn to get into
unfamiliar surroundings to explore better opportunities. Do not just
stick around with the same people, same known places, skills or work.
Explore new things that will enhance your ability to achieve your goals
and keep you stay motivated.
4. Think the unthinkable. Nothing will stop you from thinking of goals
you want to achieve. You have to dream high in order to set high goals.
Everything starts with a dream. Do not limit yourself in your goals and
dreams.
5. Read and listen to inspirational materials. You have to start
spending time reading motivational books and listening to inspirational
tapes. But, you must also implement what you learn from your reading and
listening. New things you learn from these exercises will give you
excitement and energy to work harder toward achieving your goals.
6. Resolve problems instead of running away. Your ride to success
destination will not be smooth all the time. You will face difficulties.
Do not quit when you experience predicaments in your quest to achieve
your dreams. Frustrations and setbacks naturally form as parts of your
success venture.
7. Appreciate every moment of your life. Think of what your life
really is as of now. Appreciate every moment you have currently.
Thinking about the past or day dreaming about the future will not bring
you anywhere. Appreciating your current conditions makes you feel much
better and realize the need to move forward to achieve your goals.
8. Finish what you start. Once you have started something, finish it.
Never leave what you do halfway regardless of the end result.
This will train you to accomplish something out of things that you do.
9. Face challenges one at a time. Challenges come to us almost all the
time. Take up one challenge at a time. Do not try to accumulate and face
them at one go. As the challenges accumulate, you will only feel less
motivated to face them and finally unable to complete anything.
10. Care less about what people say. You may hear a lot of bad things
people say about you. Sometimes those bad comments may come from
somebody close to you. As long as you fully know what you are doing to
achieve your goals, you can let those comments fall into deaf ears.
Thinking too much about what people say will only make you weaker and
loose focus on your effort.